Why not?

I find myself saying no a lot here lately.... Why? Mostly, because it's the thing to do, what will people think? Well, here's what I want to say. If it's not going to hurt someone or stunt anyone's growth, what does it hurt. Life is so short, We have all these rules, some I'm not really sure why we have. Why do the kids have to go to bed at 8? No reason really, they don't require that much sleep. What does it hurt for them to sleep in their clothes and some even their shoes? I don't see the harm in it, and we get ready a lot quicker in the mornings. Why do they have to eat all of their green beans? I never ate them when I was young and I turned out ok... well sort of. What does it hurt to eat dessert first? My Nanny always let me have dessert first when I was growing up and I still ate my dinner. Why can't the dogs come in the house? Oh yeah, that's because I don't want to clean up after them... I guess that's a good one. So, if you know me and you notice I'm not saying no a whole lot, Don't think it's because I don't care, it's because I do and it must not really matter to us!